Often times we are hurt in our relationships do to unmet expectations. We somehow have qualified someones love with a to do list and when that list goes unchecked we consider that we are now unloved. We set these unrealistic expectations for those around us that demand that they make us feel loved, supported, happy, and accomplished. Its quite interested really because nearly 10/10 we are not doing any of those things for ourselves. So can it be said that you don't love yourself?
In retrospect, if we want to abide in love and enjoy a fulfilling life, we must begin with self. Be good to yourself. Be for yourself what you feel that you deserve from others. This will enable you to love freely. You will be happier and more open to expressions of love that do not fit in your box now that you are not walking around with a deficit due to your own self neglect.
Be good to You,
Godis Nanu
www.beautifulnanu.com
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